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Charmain Bogue on Empowering Women Who Are Afraid to Take Up Space The problem isn't confidence. It's that nobody built the floor under them. I've sat across from women who run departments, women who've launched companies, women who hold advanced degrees and have decades of experience, and watched them shrink. Not physically, though sometimes that too. But in the way they talk about themselves. The qualifiers. The apologies before opinions. The way they attribute success to luck or timing or the team, anything but their own ability. We love to call this a confidence problem. I don't think that's what it is. I think it's a structural problem dressed up as an individual one. And until we stop telling women to just "be more confident" and start looking at the systems that trained them to be small, we're going to keep having the same conversation. Charmain Bogue has been mentoring women for years, through formal programs, and in less formal ways t...
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Charmain Bogue on What Executive Coaching Actually Looks Like Behind Closed Doors It's not motivational speeches. It's sitting with someone while they admit they don't know what they're doing. There's a version of executive coaching that exists in people's imaginations that involves whiteboards, personality assessments, and a coach who dispenses wisdom like a vending machine. You put in your problem, out comes a solution, and you go back to your corner office feeling refreshed. That is not what it looks like. I worked as a strategic advisor and executive coach, mostly with leaders who were smart, accomplished, and quietly falling apart. Not in dramatic ways. In the ways that don't show up until you're alone with someone for an hour and they finally stop performing. What Charmain Bogue learned in those rooms is that the higher someone climbs, the fewer people they have who will tell them the truth. Their teams are afraid to push back. Their boards want r...
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Charmain Bogue on How a Psychology Degree Shaped Everything That Came After The study of human behavior turns out to be the most practical degree you can get. When people ask what I studied in college, I tell them psychology, and they almost always follow up with the same question: "So did you become a therapist?" No. But I use that degree every single day. I earned my undergraduate degree in psychology, and at the time I thought I was preparing for one kind of career. What I was actually doing was learning how to read rooms, understand resistance, and figure out why people do the things they do, especially when those things don't make sense on paper. That training followed me everywhere. When I moved into strategic planning and program management, I wasn't just looking at spreadsheets and org charts. I was watching how teams responded to change. I was paying attention to who spoke up in meetings and who didn't. I was noticing when a leader said one thing and thei...
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