Charmain Bogue on What Executive Coaching Actually Looks Like Behind Closed Doors It's not motivational speeches. It's sitting with someone while they admit they don't know what they're doing. There's a version of executive coaching that exists in people's imaginations that involves whiteboards, personality assessments, and a coach who dispenses wisdom like a vending machine. You put in your problem, out comes a solution, and you go back to your corner office feeling refreshed. That is not what it looks like. I worked as a strategic advisor and executive coach, mostly with leaders who were smart, accomplished, and quietly falling apart. Not in dramatic ways. In the ways that don't show up until you're alone with someone for an hour and they finally stop performing. What Charmain Bogue learned in those rooms is that the higher someone climbs, the fewer people they have who will tell them the truth. Their teams are afraid to push back. Their boards want r...